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Cake day: June 26th, 2023

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  • My dad said the same bullshit about being a former liberal. The turning point for him, according to him, was when Clinton lied about the BJ.

    I know he’s full of shit all around because he has vocalized:

    • Nostalgia for slavery

      “Countries used to do this all the time to the conquered! Why’d we stop?”

    • Advocating, repeatedly, the nuking of middle east countries. Because anything less is token restraint.

    • That Republicans freed the (US) slaves, then he’s conveniently disinterested in continuing that line of conversation after the first counter.

    • Malicious deadnaming a trans suicide victim who was in the news, eyeing others in the room to see if it had the intended effect.

    • During the George Floyd protests he claimed his black coworker “supports none of those insincere protests and is humbly and gratefully employed.” This one was cathartic for me because I laughed my ass off to his face for several minutes, taunting his refusal to call up or name that coworker.


    Those are just the top 5 for this particular lie. We no longer have contact. He doesn’t see his kids or grandkids.

    By the way, people like this deserve the experience of some rando dropping an anonymous fake detailed tip to USdotSSdotgov along the lines of “I keep seeing brown people in his backyard pool but they never come outside otherwise. Like he’s hiding illegals.” Maybe people like that would get their own gravySEAL treatment firsthand. But of course if I were on the jury prosecuting the fake tip dropper I’d have to vote to convict because of law & order ©. (wink wink jury selectors)















  • I split with my ex of 10 years (together while I was 18 thru 29ish) and took for granted what support I did have. I’m lucky to have had parents and adult siblings on my side.

    You’re doing a heavier lift than I had to. I’d have been in a bad place if I had no support. You were dealt a shitty hand. But the support is there, and you’re on the right track to healing by seeing your therapist. Future you will be able to look back and see this for the learning experience it is. Today my wife and I tease past-me about some red flags I ignored about my ex.

    I want to share Tragedy + Time by Rise Against with you. It may come across as intended for the bereaved, but its words do not gatekeep feelings based on the cause of them. (It says “she” once but don’t get hung up on the gender.) In fact, I am tearing up right now at the thought that you, feeling what you feel, might find some solace in it.